Saturday 31 May 2014

Circular No 656








Newsletter for alumni of The Abbey School, Mt. St. Benedict, Trinidad and Tobago, W.I.
Caracas, 31 of May 2014 No. 656
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Dear Friends,
This is the second part of the conversation between Don Mitchell and Tony Vieira,
I have included it because most of us do not realize the details that it takes assure a successful gathering.
The Circular is still expecting soon some news from the ASAA in relation as to preparation for this event.
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The sixth part of REUNION AGENDA AND EXCHANGES -  26 to 27 March
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From: vcl28@aol.com
Sent: Thursday, March 27, 2014 8:03 AM
Don,
Anyway this may have a fundamental change on our date of the reunion, if we started it from Wednesday 1st October to Monday 6th October the price for the 5 nights at the Hilton would be $695.00 for one adult and at the Normandie US$599.95 but if we held this conference one week later the hotel accommodation would be double at the Hilton it would be US$1245.00!! You will recall when I did this preliminary investigation, I told you that October begins the high season and we should do it more in mid to late September than October, the OBs preferred October but that is economically not the best time. If we change the date to the first week in October to the last week in September flight prices will also be rising. But we have to decide now. So Father Harold must give us the Abbot's response today! Later than today these hotels will not be able to offer the deals for the first week in October. Here is the negative all attending may have to make a deposit now for October. let’s find out how much?
So let’s ask Justine through this email to find a hotel/s very close together which will have 100 to 200 rooms available and are prepared to offer a package deal for the first week in October 2014. This will form the basis of a plan B, in case the accommodation at the Mount falls down dead. Which at this time I am almost sure that it will. The several hotels around the queen’s park oval will be best more to see more to do etc. totally eliminate all transportation costs for Saturday's exercise. and reduce, by quite a bit, transportation cost for Maracas and the dinner/lunch. Don if we got a good deal in the end it may work out cheaper let’s find out.
I am astonished to find that the Normandy is offering $100 less than the Hilton for the 5 nights as an off season rate we could pursue this one. Anyway let’s find out what is available in the first week in October and which is the best deal, Ms. Mohamed had told us that the hotel near the airport, bad location for centralism unless the cost will be very reasonable since it has the potential to cost more because of the in transportation to the major events except for those activities at the Mount, since its closer. But if it is the only option what can we do? In any event these hotels near the airports usually are stop over flights and rarely accommodate more than 50-60 people.
I gotta prepare for court; I am giving evidence in my matter against the govt. of Guyana today.
Tony.
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Don Mitchell <idmitch@anguillanet.com>
26 Mar
Hi, Tony,
All very sensible points, but let me try to explain. 
The committee is a virtual one rather than a real one. As with everything we do, its membership varies from day to day and week to week, depending on who is available. You and I were the committee at one time. Then, it expanded to include all the Trinidadian alumni who were able to attend the organisational meeting on my second day in Port of Spain. Now that we have handed over the management of this project to Mrs Mohammed and Justine, I consider that she is the real management committee. The rest of us are advising her and waiting for her advice to decide what to do about the various ideas we have thrown at her and Justine.
The emails I send out are meant to be nothing more than stimuli. They are meant to keep the alumni on the topic of thinking about the Reunion, and planning to attend. They are not meant to be definitive about anything. 
I have the minutes, but I incorporated the most important parts in the last update I sent out.  I did not mean to circulate the actual minutes, since, as they are bullet-points rather than text, they may not mean much to those who did not attend the meeting. 
I have now learned from Fr Harold that the last Mass at the Abbey is at 8:30am. Heaven knows why it is so early. I would imagine that most hard-working Catholics would just be waking up at that time on their Sunday off from work. However, that time puts paid to my suggestion that we have a Lunch after Mass. Mass will end about 9:30. Fr Harold has come up with the suggestion that we go on to a Brunch after Mass. That is certainly a possibility.  On the other hand, we may go back to a Dinner. We only changed from a Dinner to Lunch because if we could have had a Mass at 10:30 that would give us time to assemble at the venue. Since there will be no Mass at 10:30, there seems no point in having a Lunch.
Mrs Mohammed and Justine are working on costs. We will decide at some point which events the attendees will bring cash, and which will be pre-paid. Her recommendation is that for the assistance of the caterers it would be preferable to have as much as possible registered for and pre-paid. 
Hope that helps to clarify. 
Off to school now.
Don
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Nigel Boos <nigelboos@yahoo.ca>
26 Mar
Fr. Harold,
Is it not possible to celebrate Mass for the Old Boys at a time and a place suitable to meet a general consensus. I don't know what Canon Law has to say about this, but for a special one-off, unprecedented occasion such as this, does not the Archbishop have the right to approve of a separate Mass to be celebrated wherever we might request it? For example, if a church cannot be found to accommodate our group, how about a "Mass in the Hollows" (in the area south of the Emperor Valley Zoo, and diagonally NE of Archbishop's House). Or how about in the grounds of the Archbishop's House itself, if a church cannot be found?
Just a thought.
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From: Don Mitchell <idmitch@anguillanet.com>
Sent: Wed, Mar 26, 2014 9:36 am
Hi, Tony,
All very sensible points, but let me try to explain. 
The committee is a virtual one rather than a real one.  As with everything we do, its membership varies from day to day and week to week, depending on who is available.  You and I were the committee at one time.  Then, it expanded to include all the Trinidadian alumni who were able to attend the organisational meeting on my second day in Port of Spain.  Now that we have handed over the management of this project to Mrs Mohammed and Justine, I consider that she is the real management committee.  The rest of us are advising her and waiting for her advice to decide what to do about the various ideas we have thrown at her and Justine. I see this as a monstrous problem rather than a solution. I am aware that the TT boys got involved when you visited TT, but our committee has to ensure that the overseas OBs have a good reunion and not one riddled with problems and expenses. Since I have not yet seen your minute of the meeting in TT, I do not know if you handled the problems I outlined in my previous email as to the difficulties which I see looming here, with transportation, budgeting etc being at the head of the list. That is why you have a committee in which there are overseas OBs, it is to make certain decisions which will accommodate them! Since they will have special problems and needs over and above the TT OBs. So I see this as two completely different matters. 
1. the reunion for all attending, and
2. the reunion bringing the OBs from overseas, in addition the organizer is executing our wishes and this plan you have seems to me to be excluding us from giving our concepts and letting them tell us which are workable and which are not, and most importantly costing it out for us, we may end up with a reunion which may not work for the OBs from overseas, because it’s too expensive.. So I have a few questions for Ms Mohamed, for now I will assume that the persons to which this is copied are the rest of your committee subject to what the others say.
1. Will we be organizing transportation to each event for the OBs, or will they be responsible for their own transport in TT, which is not notorious for the ease of getting a taxi.
2. Where will we seek to accommodate the OBs at the Mount [cheap but not conducive to having the type of togetherness required in this sort of reunion] poolside liming, bar in the hotel etc.
3. Since the Abbott has decided to be non cooperative, my original suggestion that we use the rest houses located at the Mount to give them badly needed revenue, is no longer a primary consideration, so now we have to decide on the best place including the economics of doing it, to this end we have we asked two or three hotels to give us a package deal on accommodating 250 OBs in the first week of October 2014?   
The emails I send out are meant to be nothing more than stimuli. They are meant to keep the alumni on the topic of thinking about the Reunion, and planning to attend. They are not meant to be definitive about anything. Don, how can this be helpful? this is the sure path to confusion. A concept of not being definite about anything is by itself a tip to the sort of confusion this can cause us. We must make decisions based on the economics of the situation and the convenience it will bring to the OBs attending, and send out those decisions to the general membership, not more questions.
I have the minutes, but I incorporated the most important parts in the last update I sent out.  I did not mean to circulate the actual minutes, since, as they are bullet-points rather than text, they may not mean much to those who did not attend the meeting. I did not get the last update you sent out! Perhaps that why I have more questions than answers. I would like to see the minutes though can someone send it to me?
I have now learned from Fr Harold that the last Mass at the Abbey is at 8:30am. Heaven knows why it is so early. I would imagine that most hard-working Catholics would just be waking up at that time on their Sunday off from work. However, that time puts paid to my suggestion that we have a Lunch after Mass. Mass will end about 9:30. Fr Harold has come up with the suggestion that we go on to a Brunch after Mass. That is certainly a possibility.  On the other hand, we may go back to a Dinner. We only changed from a Dinner to Lunch because if we could have had a Mass at 10:30 that would give us time to assemble at the venue. Since there will be no Mass at 10:30, there seems no point in having a Lunch. This may not necessarily be so. [see below] Normally this would be a small issue not even worth considering but it creates a big problem, what do we do between say 9.30 am to 7 PM when the dinner begins. if we were lodged at a hotel we could lounge around the pool etc. but we had decided on this mass as an item on the agenda when we decided that we would use the Facilities on the mountain to accommodate us, if we stay at a hotel in the city, how will be get to this mass? it’s something we will have to consider. So first of all we would like to know from Mss Mohamed and Low what facilities exist at the three locations at the Mount bar etc. or what we can ask to be installed there and how much it will cost, accommodation and meals etc, and especially how many OBs it can accommodate in total? then we have to have quotes from some hotels telling us that during the first week in October 2014 the cost of a package deal for 100 OBs will be W; for 150 boys it will be X: for 200 boys be will be Y and for 250 OBs it will be Z! 
Mrs Mohammed and Justine are working on costs. We will decide at some point which events the attendees will bring cash, and which will be pre-paid. Her recommendation is that for the assistance of the caterers it would be preferable to have as much as possible registered for and pre-paid. This is consistent with what we agreed. But other decisions are being made before we get to the costs to decide on what we will do. That can’t be a reasonable or logical way to proceed, our decisions have to be made in a sequence, we offer a suggestion we get a cost and we decide if we will go ahead with that plan or go on to something else, for example the dinner/ball vs the Luncheon. Before we decide which we must have the cost of these two options. secondly If we are staying at the accommodations on the hill, the luncheon now seems to me to be a better option, i.e. we go to the mass at 8.30 AM after which we leave the hill around 11 am and go to the luncheon in POS, we eat, drink, talk, lime, then wander around the hotel where the luncheon is being held until evening 6-7 PM when we jump into the buses and go back to the hill. It’s neater and uses the time better. so you see we need more answers before we make our decisions and the organizer won’t be able to decide on these alternatives for us and so before we ask the OBs what they think, we should present them with more data and the full impact of the difference of utilization of time between the two times, before they can make an informed decision as to which [we] they want. So after arguing with myself here I see that we have to resolve the problem of accommodation first! Then we can make intelligent decisions about the other things. And to repeat as far as is humanly possible, not to end up with a disaster, the Overseas OBs must stay at one primary place. If we accept that then we have to decide where! Once we have made those decisions we can then decide other things and fine tune the list of activities.
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Nigel Boos <nigelboos@yahoo.ca>
26 Mar
Another thought,
Perhaps it might be an idea too, to invite our newly consecrated Old Boy, Cardinal Kelvin Felix to celebrate Holy Mass with us in the Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception together with Archbishop Joe Harris C.S.Sp., Fr. Abbot John Pereira O.S.B., Msgr. Mike de Verteuil (Class of 1963), Fr. Cuthbert O.S.B., Fr. Augustine O.S.B. and Fr. Christopher Theunissen O.S.B. and yourself as concelebrants. Prior Br. Paschal Jordan and any of the other monks who would wish to attend should also be invited to do so. The OB's attending the Mass should be asked to wear the T-shirts being printed for use during the Reunion, with the logo as suggested by Dennis Gurley.
And since the Old Boys of the Abbey School had donated dalmatics to the 20 men who were ordained as Permanent Deacons in 2010, perhaps we could invite them all / some of them at least, as well to be present at the Holy Mass, wearing our donated vestments. Salah Wilson, our resident steel-bandsman should be asked to prepare appropriate liturgical music, with the advice of Br. Paschal, for use during the ceremony. Now, wouldn't that be a fantastic picture?
I should also like to earnestly request that Lionel Roberts (formerly Bro. Vincent of MSB, our old Sports Master), be invited to join us during the proposed Holy Mass and to be an integral part of our Grand Reunion celebrations. As Brother Vincent, he was a father, brother and friend to all of us boys at MSB, so far away from our families, and he had been a source of comfort and understanding during our teenage years. Lionel is himself also a deacon and he had worked very hard 4 years ago to get the OB's involved in the ordination ceremony of the 20 deacons. I suggest that he has earned a place in our ranks, and I recommend that he be especially invited to attend the Grand Reunion. I believe that he may be reached in Florida, where he works as a lawyer. His email contact is:  lrober17@tampabay.rr.com
Nigel
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From: "Schaefer, Glen O CIV MSC, N131" <glen.schaefer@navy.mil>
Subject: RE: Reunion 2014
Date: 26 March, 2014 11:24:33 AM EDT
Greetings Brothers,
With the gracious consent of the 2014 reunion lead organizers myself and a few others would like to organize a nice All Fours Tournament on Saturday night 11 Oct with food and drinks to be included. If we have the blessings of the committee our intent moving forward would be to ask for donations dollars, assets or connections to reduce and offset the cost of eats , drinks music, facility, tents, tables and chairs. Purpose is to invite as much of our brothers who cannot attend some of the more cost bearing events. This is our MSB old boys reunion a chance to meet greet and enjoy. Peace.
Pugs, Joe, Jimmy or Winston: I do not have Ian Gomes email could you please forward this email to him for me. Thanks God Bless.
Glen Schaefer aka Skippy.
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Saturday 24 May 2014

Circular No 655






Newsletter for alumni of The Abbey School, Mt. St. Benedict, Trinidad and Tobago, W.I.
Caracas, 24 of May 2014 No. 655
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Dear Friends
See Trinidad’s Yachting Cluster:
And,
I have taken the liberty to send out a conversation between Don Mitchell and Tony Vieira, because most of us do not realize the details what it takes to ensure a successful gathering.
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The fifth part of REUNION AGENDA AND EXCHANGES -  26 March
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From: vcl28@aol.com
Sent: Wednesday, March 26, 2014 5:35 PM
Thanks Don
Frankly I understand it completely. It’s a good plan, very much what we agreed. I see that transport to and from events and a chit system to pay for each event is going to be put in place.
I especially like the doubles for lunch on the first day. Do you see the boat trip and the walk around POS as being together or separate events? Some off to the boat trip, and some off to the walk around POS? I believe that they are separate operations. And from what Golding says I am opting for that boat trip, apparently it’s incredible. You chaps can sweat it out walking all around Fredrick street.
I see that we will probably be staying at the Mount, and that father Harold will tell us how many of us the facilities will accommodate and the probable cost, but what is this special permission needed to occupy the accommodation from Wednesday? This is a new element which I had not factored in, have you? Suppose this uncooperative Abbot says no! Then what? And this time he may have a legitimate explanation since if their operations are set up to function from Friday to Monday, his staff would be tied to these days and probably be working somewhere else during the rest of the week and he may not have people to man the operation Wednesday and Thursday. Father Harold must work quickly since this is the cornerstone of all of our plans.
When we see the answers to the costs of the luncheon vs the dinner/ball and the mass at 10.30 am, we will know if we should opt for a lunch or a dinner. But we should get the quotation for both. I see Nigel suggesting some very ambitious plans for the mass and he's not even attending.
Kapok is in POS and has excellent food, best Taiwanese restaurant in Trinidad, it’s close to the Queens Park Oval I stayed there once with my dad when he was sick and I took him to see a haematologist. I also ate there on numerous occasions one time Ken Gordon took me to lunch there. It has around 30-50 rooms, totally inappropriate for us as accommodation, though I see Glen McKoy already dribbling all over it.
Tony
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Don,
A few observations on the operating of this committee; first of all we need to identify again who is on the committee and then we should let the committee make the decisions. I am not sure that what I see going on reflects that concept, and below you will find a few examples.

1. I think that you should give more details about Michael Howard's boat trip. (This might be a first class idea. I've recently received a video of a school / herd / whatever of dolphins in TT waters which (I'm told) are now regularly accompanying speed boats between "the islands". Should be great to see these. I don't know what it is all about, and neither may the other old boys. Personally I would much prefer the boat trip to walking all over POS since I have seen it recently.
2. The other comment I have is that the OBs are scattered too widely in their accommodation, you should concentrate them in a more central location since this will be a nightmare to organize and to mobilize to the different functions. If you are planning to have an attendance of 250 overseas old boys, lets first find out what is the capacity to accommodate them at the various locations, so the first question is this "what is the total capacity of the 3 accommodations on the Mount? the Abbey, the Guest House and the Seminary?" as I have explained several times before, if we are all together in one location it would give be easier to organize, with much less problems to mobilize the group to the various functions. Are you still pursuing the line that it is the responsibility of the OBs to get to each function on their own, rather than us organizing some buses to do it making it much less expensive and much more manageable? if you are I beg you to reconsider. Of course, clustered accommodation would, in my view, be preferable. Hard to arrange, but preferable.
3. You did not say if the accommodations at the Mount could accept credit card payments, this is important since the overseas old boys should know if they have to walk with cash. Did you find out? Good question. Although, I doubt that they'll accept credit cards. Good to confirm.
4. Will the organizer Ms. Mohamed as I recommended, give us a costing of attending each event planned. and if she is, have you considered some sort of chit system for attending them? i.e. that on signing in to their accommodations will the OBs be required to pay through a chit system for each event they intend to attend from the various events planned, including the Luncheon? I am taking the lead here from what I see when I visit Disney World and Boat Cruises with the kids and this chit system works quite well, you can even buy them on line, by being required to buy these chits when checking into the accommodation, each person participating can decide which event he/she wants to participate in an buy a chit for transporting them to and from of the event plus and any other costs that may be involved? the cost of the chits can be circulated before hand to let them know what they are going to do and what it will cost.
5. Will Ms. Mohamed prepare some sort of budget for this entire reunion, sorted by event so that each OB will know before he leaves his home overseas for TT what this could cost him? Definitely! A must!
6. From your email I see that minutes of meetings you held in Trinidad will be circulated, what sort of minutes? I am not so much in favour of circulating these minutes far and wide, I thought that you would circulate the minutes on your trip to TT among the organizing committee, which will lead to decisions by the committee and then circulate the decisions made regarding this event to the wider membership, and it has already begun to happen this involvement of the wider membership in matters which should not be of concern to them, Fr. Harold's email for example, it was circulated far and wide and turned everyone off, if you have an organizing committee shouldn't father Harold's email have been sent to you alone by him and then you in turn ask your committee members what they thought? In the end the matter was resolved without all of the rancor which I saw the OBs levelling against the Abbot. Whatever the justification! But was it necessary that a matter which was so inconsequential was allowed to explode into such a huge furor? I myself did not participate in any personal attack on the Abbot, all I said was that his actions were contrary to normal custom and practice and probably illegal.
7. If the Mount cannot accommodate 250 OBs then we have to have the next best accommodation close to where they will be, and they will all stay there, did you get the per diem cost for the various accommodations including meals? This will encourage early registration and payment of the 100.00 participating fee. You did not make it clear and I think that you must, this US$100 fee is non refundable.  Correct? And it will be used to pay the organizers, videographer [?] etc. None of it will be used to attend the functions. I think that you should say so.
I may have more thoughts when I see the minute of your meet in TT.
Tony Vieira
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From: Joe <bermentmcdowald@yahoo.com>
Sent: Mon, Mar 24, 2014 6:43 am
Gentlemen,
If I really despise someone's ethics or conduct or have concerns about the means by which he would have obtained the means to become my benefactor I wouldn't accept a glass of water from him. In this context, I find the abbot's conduct strange. If he doesn't have contempt for our association, he possibly has that feeling for one of some of us - - how unjust and un Christian, if there is any possibility of my being right. God knows what informs the abbot's actions. I don't know why he acts the way that he does and I am afraid to guess. I can't condemn his choice, although I have been repeatedly hurt by it. 
One of the alumni opined that he found the abbot's acceptance of a cheque on the monastery's 100 anniversary offensive. - - reminiscent of the present pope's recent forceful denunciation of the Italian church's seeming ambivalence towards the mafia. I could understand why he [the old boy] found it so, however. I know from long bitter, repeated, experience that Trinbagonians seldom sufficiently, support causes that we claim ownership over. We are not a people to invest much energy and resources into organisations and organising, maybe to marginalise some other group and then only for those purposes. Seldom does anything noble move us, unless it offends our hubris. We are (by and large) a people, full of talk, unless it is to serve our narrow (especially economic and too frequently tribal) self interest: this is why we have what we have. Our legacy is the bankruptcy of the plantation - - all of us.
I still hope that the ASAA could serve to inspire a better way.
Sincerely,
Joe
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vcl28@aol.com
24 Mar
I am going to give you guys my position in this matter.
I am not a lawyer, but my lawyer always tells me that whatever seems unjust, or unreasonable in life probably is not lawful; It’s called natural Justice. There is also what is called precedent and common practice.
As an old boy of the Abbey school, Mount Saint Benedict, Tunapuna, Trinidad; to which end my father spent several thousand US dollars between 1958 to 1964, at that time this money could have bought a small house anywhere in the Caribbean. I have earned the right to wear the crest of that school. It was from there that I graduated and even in the most copyright regulated country in the world, no one can tell a former student of any school in the USA including Harvard not to wear the school colours or crest from which he matriculated.
I don't even know why we have to ask the Abbot's permission to wear the crest or colours of our alma mater. In view of this I am sending a special message to this Abbot, that Anthony Vieira BSC, MS MP from Guyana will be wearing his crest and the colours of his college from which he paid to attend, and from which he graduated. He is welcome to try to sue me.
I was always prompting Don Mitchell that I prefer to attend the reunion close to the college, and therefore if they have converted the seminary, the guest house and the abbey itself into a place of public accommodation, that we should stay there and in the process bring some badly needed money to the abbey, especially since it put less of an economic pressure on the old boys attending from afar.
I don't know about you guys but I will be staying with my friend Dr. Omar Khan in Valsyn North.
This ludicrous position the Abbot takes, enters the realm of the ridiculous in view of the fact that this college no longer even exists and therefore no one can place blame on the college if I did something wrong [as in peeing in public wearing those colours] since I cannot possibly embarrass or defame an entity which no longer exists.
The Abbot must be made to understand that he has no legal right to deny this small request which can have no other effect than to honour the college, and that we asked his permission only out of courtesy and we reject his position since he has no legal authority to do so. You all can of course do what you want! Me? I will do what I want! 
As far as the mass is concerned I have no problem going at 8.30 AM, if I go at all. it is with total shame that I have to report that I have not entered a church since 2007 when my mother died and before that 2005 when my father died. Because I have [COPD] congestive obstructive pulmonary disorder and it is very stressful for me to be stay for long periods, in a closed atmosphere with high levels of CO2.
On one related matter I notice that Mitchell came back from Trinidad and informed us that he will have a lunch and not a dinner but the circulated list of activities he sent out after returning from Trinidad says this "Grand Reunion Dinner (at Queen’s Park Oval) in the evening (Event Organiser, assisted by the Organising Committee). which is it?
Tony Vieira
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From: Nigel Boos Date: Sun, 23 Mar 2014 15:32:09
Fr. Abbot's Attitude Glen, I'm very surprised at Fr. Abbot's state of mind.
Perhaps he has something bothering him that he has not felt comfortable to admit / say. perhaps he just doesn't approve of our Association.
Why? I don't know. Has someone offended him / the MSB community in some way?
Why doesn't he tell us about his reservations?
Then maybe we'll have an opportunity to understand why he seems to resent every single thing we do.
In fact, maybe it's because of me. If so, I'm sorry, but I can't do anything about it today.
You see, I was a seminarian of the Congregation of the Holy Spirit and of the Immaculate Heart of Mary, between 1963 - 1970.
During my last year in seminary, I returned from Ireland to Trinidad, to teach, as a Prefect, at CIC, where John Pereira was a student.
He was a very thoughtful, serious, and somewhat introverted young man, deeply religious, and interested, it seems to me, in my additional duties as the Choir Director of the CIC College Choir.
Note: I do not recall whether he was ever a member of the Choir, but I cannot find his face among the boys seen in the photograph.
At the same time, I had a major problem with the Holy Ghost Fathers, which led to my decision to quit my studies for the priesthood - and so, here I am today.
Could it be that Abbot Pereira was disgusted, disappointed, resentful of me to the point that my involvement with the ASAA causes him to have these negative feelings towards us?
I don't know. But he at least could let me know, I think, if that is so, and then I'd have a chance to discuss the matter with him.
In all of my correspondence with him, I have shown civil and charitable respect.
I have no bitterness toward him, and wish him well in his responsibilities as Abbot, but I believe that his attitude towards the ASAA is downright disrespectful and most uncharitable.
I believe that a small delegation from the ASAA should request a meeting with him to find out what really is the cause of his negative feelings towards us.
Good luck, guys. Nigel
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On 2014-03-23, at 12:54 PM, Glen Mckoy wrote: >
My Dear Sir Neil,
As Sir Shaun said, we can get forgiveness before we get permission, with regards to the crest. I just don't understand his logic.
He is just out to give us a hard time, what did we do to get this cold reaction.
Did ah Mount boy do something to this guy a long time ago, ah feel like ah missing part of a story here, he have ah real hate on us, or someone in the mix??
I also note your comment about going to the zoo, we may encounter animals outside the zoo, is this what yuh telling meh ha! ha! > >
I know it is not nice to be rejected, by the Abbot so many times now, however I must laugh as this is really funny, its down right silly, stupid little things, I just can't believe it, then he would attend our functions, eat, drink and be merry without thanks, well all I can say is Cheers to him, adios, glen.
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From: idmitch@anguillanet.com 
Date: Sat, 22 Mar 2014 14:18:45 -0400 > > > >
Gentlemen,
You may have heard by now that Fr Abbot is not able to facilitate our plans for the Reunion, despite a very humble and polite request from Fr Harold.
We must remember that he was neither a student nor a teacher at the school.
It is therefore disappointing but not surprising that he appears distant.
However, we would still like to invite him and the Monks to participate in our events.
We still plan to push on with our Reunion, and the visit to the school buildings, which does not require his permission.
We still plan a reunion T-shirt, but it will not have the School Crest (which is the Abbey Crest, and under his control).
It will merely have the words, “Abbey School, Mt St Benedict”. > >
It is a pity, really. But it is not fatal.
Don
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Date: Tue, 18 Mar 2014 13:55:38 -0400
Subject: Abbey Alumni Reunion 2014
From: frharold12@gmail.com
Hi Abbot John 
I've attended 2 meetings of a group of Abbey Alumni to plan their Abbey Alumni Reunion 2014:
-- The dates are Thursday 9 to Sunday 12, 2014.
We have engaged the services of an Event Planner/Co-ordinator, Mrs Shira Mohammed (whose Office is in Scott Street, St. Augustine). She will contact you about details of the Event, and you may have seen her email address above.
We would like to print polo shirts for the occasion using the Abbey School Crest, which I believe is the same as that of the Monastery, so we would like to ask your permission to use the crest with the name below as Mount St. Benedict, so that they can continue to be sold after the Reunion at the Mount Shop. Naturally the first printing would be a little more costly because of the template, but there after any other printing would be cheaper. If you are agreeable, we would stand the cost of the first printing and would charge a little more so that the extra mark up would be collected and presented to you as our Reunion 2014 Gift to the Benedictine Community to whom all of the Alumni owe a great debt for their High School Education and Formation.
On another note we would like to ask whether we can gather at 10:30am in the Abbey Church for a special mass to mark this occasion with yourself as the Main Celebrant and Frs Cuthbert and Augustine concelebrating and Bro. Rupert in attendance. I myself will concelebrate as a former Teacher. While this is an extra Mass to your otherwise continued schedule of Sunday Masses, I am willing to search for extra celebrants for your other Sunday masses so as to lighten the load on that day.
Thanks,
humbly,
Fr. Harold
Servant of Mary for Jesus
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