Saturday, 16 August 2014

Circular No 667









Newsletter for alumni of The Abbey School, Mt. St. Benedict, Trinidad and Tobago, W.I.
Caracas, 16 of August 2014 No. 667
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Dear Friends,
Here is an article that I am sure you would like reading.
This was Sport at Mount.
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Sweet talk and lasting memories
Hugh Henderson
Published: 12 Apr 2010
Two weeks ago my long-time school friend Joe Azar organised a luncheon for some Mount St Benedict old boys to meet a popular past student Neil Woon Sam, whom we had not seen for 55 years.  Talk was sweet, old photos were examined, stories were plentiful and it was a beautiful experience proving once again what friends are all about.  Neil was one of my best friends at school as we played on all the school teams and it was a dream fulfilled to see him again.  As I drove home, our discussions caused me to reflect on how schoolboy sport had changed over the last 50 plus years.
For example:  As students at a boarding school we lived in a disciplined atmosphere where we bonded together for the entire school year and most of us played all sports — cricket, football, tennis, volleyball, ping pong and athletics.  We also sang in the choir, acted in plays and belonged to the scout troop — such an active, healthy and balanced life.  It was a given that every afternoon we went down to the playing field and then had to rush back up the hill to shower and get ready for hours of evening study.  Today, you are lucky if a student plays one sport or even knows what a scout looks like.  We had big name coaches.  I was coached by Test spinner Ellis “Puss” Achong and Elias Constantine (Sir Learie’s brother and national player) in cricket;  Jimmy Hill (Fulham and England footballer) and Alan Joseph (national football captain) in football;  and PG Wilson, perhaps the best known athletic coach at the time.
We also found ourselves playing against established players.  At 16 years, I was privileged to play against national player Carl Furlonge, and Test bowlers Charran Singh, Jaswick Taylor and Charlie Stayers of Guyana.  We grew up fast, playing as 15 and 16-year-olds in the East St. George cricket league against men twice our age and not afraid to “let us have it”.  We all remember a left-arm quickie named Prime who inflicted many a black and blue on our bodies.  There is the famous story of Prime hitting “Michael” on his unprotected thigh four times in a row and having the umpire turn down each appeal for LBW.  In the next over, by which time Michael’s leg was almost paralysed, Prime appealed again, at which point Michael informed the umpire “out or not out, I am going!”
When it came to football season, playing at the ground in St Joseph, it was no different facing the brutal tackles of huge men who could care less how young we were.  Of course, we did not travel with doctors, coaches, psychologists and trainers like today but rubbed our wounds on the sidelines and faced the world as real men, not pampered babies.  Equipment was something else, both for cricket and football!  It is hard to imagine that none of us ever heard of an arm guard, a chest pad, a thigh pad, a face mask or a batting helmet.  Today’s batting gloves look like boxing gloves, while ours were made of light cotton with a few rubber pimples along the top of the fingers for so-called protection.  Yet we all survived with few injuries.  We used to rub our precious bats with linseed oil, another “unknown” today.
The footballs of today take off like a plane no matter who kicks them.  We had to deal with leaden leather balls, thick with dubbin and threatening laces ready to scar your forehead for life if you dared to head a corner.  Of course if the field was wet and the ball weighed a ton, you had to have the strength of Samson and Hercules combined to kick the ball more than a few feet.  Tennis racquets today are unrecognisable to what we played with, and in our day no-one except the professional Pancho Segura used a two handed backhand.  No schoolboys played golf in the 50’s, now seemingly hundreds do.  Today we have the Soca Princesses in every age group but 50 years ago, no girl could kick a ball.  In 1965 I invited a very pretty and intelligent girl to come to the Oval to see two English teams play.  She had never seen a football match and proved it when she asked: “When are they going to move those big posts that are in the way?” (the goalposts!!).
Even my precious wife, having been to school in USA, when I took her to White Hart Lane to see the great Jimmy Greaves play for Tottenham Hotspurs, floored me when she asked what “college” he played for!  Perhaps the biggest change is the mode of travel.  All our youth teams today seem to do nothing but fly all over the world for warm up games, trials, major tournaments et al, living in regal style.  It is difficult to keep up with who is where and when.  In 1955, our 14-member school team toured Guyana to play cricket, football and athletics against St Stanislaus College, and we travelled on a bauxite ship, sleeping on the open deck, the more fortunate ones having the thick, winding anchor rope as a pillow.  And you know what?  We thought we were the luckiest boys in the world, privileged to play in “foreign.”  How many 16-year-olds can claim to have played at Bourda and faced soon to be Test fast bowler, Charlie Stayers?
The following year, another Mount team travelled to Guyana on SS Mabiri, the oldest, slowest boat ever to float.  Apart from most boys nearly dying from sea-sickness, the trip took nearly three days instead of the expected one.  When Roger my brother woke up on the first morning and optimistically declared he could see Guyana, he soon learned that what he was actually seeing was San Fernando in the distance!  It is said that the most famous over in cricket history was bowled by Holding against Boycott in 1981.  Mount old boys beg to disagree as we all remember “Joe”, a nippy opening bowler, who bowled the first over in a league game against a visiting team.  The first two balls were edged through the slips for four.  The third ball was dropped by second slip, the fourth was again edged for four and the fifth was dropped in the gully.  This was too much for “Joe” to bear, so he went back fuming to his mark, dropped on his knees, raised the ball like a chalice to the heavens and called out in pain “Lord, Lord, what to bowl?”
We were all on edge as “Joe,” divinely inspired, roared in with his final ball, only to have the batsman take a mighty swing and hit him into the bamboo for six!  Beat that Mikey Holding!  Thank you guys for a fantastic occasion. The food was excellent, the company even better and the memories will last forever—after all, we are now in our seventies so “forever” is not really so long! 
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From: Glen Mckoy <mckoy43glen@hotmail.com>
Date: 7 June 2014 14:09
Thank you, Sir Bandit, for re-educating us again on the Mount Boys, we knew so little about.  This is another hero from our tribe.  Please read, gentlemen, all I can add to this.
I am so proud to be a Mount Boy. 
The eagles took our brother Sir John Felix, into the light, we will always treasure the fond memories of all our classmates until the end.
Long live this reunion of lifetime friends. 
Best regards
glen mckoy.
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From: nigelboos@eagles-wings.ca
Date: Mon, 2 Jun 2014 11:17:32 -0400
It was announced a few days ago that Pres. Obama had proclaimed June to be the Caribbean-American Heritage Month
However, what was not mentioned is that such a proclamation has been, to a large extent, due to the efforts of a MSB Old Boy, John Felix, who died in August 2013.
I had not known John, but Bandit de Castro and another Trini friend, Neil Espinet of San Fernando, brought him to my attention when news of his death had been mentioned. 
Here's what Neil Espinet had written to me about John Felix:
I knew or got to know John Felix just about the same time as the Bandit De Castro.  He was involved in anything Caribbean, Trinidad and Maracas. John did go to Mount St. Benedict, but he did so for only 3 years, in the late years when it was then acceptable for vast amounts of non-whites and boys from not wealthy or upperclass families.  Apparently this was the period nearing the end and the closing of the college.  It could have been the period of religious brothers, I think Dom Basil Mathew, and Brother Vincent (Lionel Roberts), who is now married and was a brother later in Brazil.
Lionel is close to De Castro, and lives in St. Petersburg, Florida, with his wife Marlene.  I have heard JOHN FELIX ramble on about Mount St. Benedict, its location, structure of buildings, etc, many times.  Lionel Roberts is a short in height Negro, appox. age 82 years old.  He was never mentioned by any of you guys so I, as an outsider of the Mount, never told you, contact Bandit on him.  As regards to JOHN FELIX, he accompanied me twice to Erica Williams-Connel functions.  He was a magic personality.  The Bandit and Felix went to all Caribbean carnivals in Florida.  John Felix was one hell of a friend to us both.  We will go to his funeral together , 
John founded the CARIBBEAN-AMERICAN CULTURAL ASSOCIATION [CACANA] it can be found on Google.  He was also prominent in the election and re-election of Trinidad born twice mayor of Orlando / Longwood.  John Maingot is a close friend of the Venezuelian- descendants of settlers in Maracas / Paramin region.  He was a gentleman, and a proud Caribbean man, involved in serious Caribbean issues in Florida. 
John will be missed tremendously by the younger born in America children immigrants from the West indies, who live in Florida.  Find more on John Felix research under CACANA.  Thank you for thinking of this special person, not from an upper or rich family, who laboured in the planting of cocoa, coffee, bananas, in the hills and back woods of Paramin. 
Bless you, Nigel, and thank you from depths in my mind, memory and 16 years of a relationship with John Felix.  Gracias, y hasta luego, amigo .   
NEIL DESMOND ESPINET D' CARRIBEAN - MAN
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Nigel Boos
Aug 27, 2013
Thanks for this information, Neil.
For some reason, I'd never heard of John Felix before this, as a student at MSB.
However, I've now added some information to the MSB OB database, from notes sent to me by Bandit and yourself, and I'm very thankful for them.
I know Lionel Roberts try well, and we have been frequently in touch with one another.
All your notes are interesting.
Nigel
P.S. Gentlemen (to whom this note is sent as 'bcc')
The notes below, from a friend in Florida, Neil Espinet (not an OB of MSB) are in reference to JOHN FELIX, an Old Boy of MSB, who became a prominent Caribbean man in Florida.  John died a few days ago, and he will be sorely missed by the folks in Florida, among others.
May his soul rest in peace.
Nigel
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On 08/26/13,
Don Mitchell<idmitch@anguillanet.com> wrote:
I Googled his name and found this John Felix of Orlando:
If any of you is on Twitter, you may be able to access his account and see if he is the right one.
Don
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From: Nigel Boos
Sent: Monday, August 26, 2013 11:39 AM
Bandit and Neil,
Thank you for this note. I am sorry to hear of John's passing, but this is the first time I'd heard that there was ever a boy at MSB by this name.  I've added him into the database and indicated that he has died.  Is there anything at all that you can tell me about him, for inclusion in the DB?  For example, can you perhaps, make a guess as to the years he attended school at MSB?  One other thing - can you explain for me what he was prominent for?
I worked at Amoco for a number of years, and I'd been involved with hiring a John Felix who actually worked in the HR Department with me.  He was a fine man, and a friend of mine, but I do not recall him ever mentioning MSB to me.  Further, I never heard him speak about Paramin, even though I had personally done some PR work in those hills on behalf of Amoco, and he might have known about it.
So, my question is:  Do you think that your John Felix and mine are the same person?
By the way, do you know what he died of?
May he rest in peace.
Nigel
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On 2013-08-25, at 11:41 AM,
david decastro wrote:
He was also a Mount Saint Benedict boy, and a very good friend of mine --rest in peace --'bandit"
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Date: Sun, 25 Aug 2013 10:16:37 -0500
From: florita4@verizon.net
Announcement; Death of John Felix; Orlando Region; Florida / USA .
August 24th, 2013;
This sorrowful notification is to inform of the passing of an extremely generous and faithful Trinidadian, who was born and walked proudly out of the hillside and cocoa estate region of Paramin / Maracas Valley.  He must have seen and known the secrets of the 'sauta dou' spiritual flow current, of that region’s sand bar and the funge - current sometimes doubted spiritual flow of the Maracas Seas in the region offshore and opposite to the tiny town of Paramin, as this was a man unafraid to give his opinion about his home, his friends, that region, that gave a sacred honour and special gift to brave Caribbean men only who are blessed by the special saint of the village St. Joseph of the Valley
Go slowly, Juan.
Sincerely and positively,
neil desmond espinet .
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Photos:
11CM3032CMASCO, Carlos Maneiro and Salvador Coscarart
12LA3594LAL,  Leon Alves
60CV0008GUYANESE, Trip to Guyana,
12WD2624WDI, Wbladimiro Diaz




Saturday, 9 August 2014

Circular No 666









Newsletter for alumni of The Abbey School, Mt. St. Benedict, Trinidad and Tobago, W.I.
Caracas, 9 of August 2014 No. 666
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Dear Friends,
Here is the summary of the exchanges that were sent to us after Fr. Odo´s funeral.
I have waited this long as I feel that sufficient time has passed.
And that opinions from our readers on the issue need to be aired in this forum.
But again the Circular, being the only venue of information available to the Old boys, must gather the general feeling of this and other opinions and ideas being discussed.
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Jon Golding
Feb 8
Dear Joe
I’m not sure if we met when I was in TT in 2002-2009 during one of my visits to the Mount. 
You are, as I understand it, the Chairman of our registered Alumni Association.
The role of a Chairman is one of good corporate governance and leadership with connections and influence to maintain and sustain the growth of our association ethically and responsibly.
As such your opinions would be taken as more informed and meaningful than a casual member.
What you have written is not acceptable to the Association since it appears to be personal to you (and not of relevance to body of the Association), also apparently vindictive and spiteful.
To add insult to injury, you are expressing your childhood grief in the same email as informing us of the passing of one of our longest serving monks at the Abbey.
You seem to have some haunting memories after all these years that are so vivid you cannot contain yourself when you should be expressing sadness and thankfulness.
All of us old boys had emotional and even physical pain to bear growing up at the school.
But that was the price for maturing into characters who could not, later on, easily be taken advantage of.
It was all part of growing up and the Mount has produced some really good examples among us from those formative years.
These are the guys who have a lasting affection for the old days and the friendships we made which are still with us today and have matured with a parental acceptance of our proxy parents from the Abbey.
FYI, Alumni is not an association, it is the collective persona (made up of individual graduates) of a school, university or academic association.
So your role as Chairman is simply a secondary one of an Association you have formed to register some of the alumni as members and organise events, etc.
But the image and reputation of that non-profit entity can have serious implications on the image and reputation of the ‘real’ alumni around the world which graduates belong to, whether they like it or not, and of which most of us are proud.
We who survived the gauntlet to final exams are the alumni and not the part-timers who from what I have seen are the trouble makers and revenge seekers for the pressure they could not take when they were up the hill.
I will sympathise with you for a moment and share some of your pain but I think you need to dump those adolescent memories in the labass and move on.
And we have no control over what the Association Alumni does or does not do.
In brotherly love and caring
Jon Golding
(1955-61)
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On Thursday, February 6, 2014 7:10 PM,
Glen Mckoy <mckoy43glen@hotmail.com> wrote:
Muchas Gracias, Mi Hermano Y Mi Amigo, Sir Sarkis,  
Lest we forget, today a group of our brothers will be meeting, for a ceremony at the Abbey Church Mount Saint Benedict, to bid a last farewell to Our Teacher, Brother, Monk, Great Grand Master Knight-Father Odo.  
As we walk in Spirit with our Brothers, who are attending, Three Cheers, Forever-One, Long Live The Mount.
Yours Faithfully - Glen McKoy.
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Schaefer, Glen O CIV MSC, N131
Feb 6
Greetings,
Maybe bad timing, but the old proverb "Two wrongs don't make a right." Nuff said.
Peace, Skippy.
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From: vcl28@aol.com
Sent: Tuesday, February 4, 2014 12:51 PM
Glen,
I don't remember Fr. Odo, but I think that I understand how you feel since you have a very altruistic concept of what and who we are, and it is your right to express your expectations as to the behaviour of the Knights, I would never try to change you, you are like a ray of sunshine to this club and I for one celebrate having you with us.
However whatever the situation and as inappropriate as it may be in the circumstances, Joe has a right to his opinion as well, and even though I totally agree with you that in the present context it may be inappropriate, I do believe reading his email that he apparently feels strongly about it, and is invoking his right to freedom of speech to express those feelings and his anger.  We have to accept that Joe is free to write what he wants to write, to freely express his opinion, just as it is our right to disregard it.
The most we can do now is to express our opinion that Joe's tirade is probably inappropriate under the circumstances, and let nature take its course.
Take a deep breath, count to 1000, and send us the latest chapter of the Glen Mc Koy Saga.  How has the cold been affecting you?  
Tony Vieira
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From: Glen Mckoy mckoy43glen@hotmail.com
Sent: Tue, Feb 4, 2014 9:48 am
My dear Sirs, Laz, Don, Nigel, Jon & George,
This former fellow Abbey student currently holds an important role in our registered Alumni Association, including forwarding news and making announcements such as we just received from him.  Consider this now as he so horribly and inappropriately takes a very solemn occasion and uses it as his personal platform to broach a topic, which in its very length and acidity, speaks to the depth of his inferiority complex.  This is from the long past, from childhood, and most adults manage to rationalize, or at least 'let go' of events when it serves no purpose other than to spread negativity and unhappiness. To spew forth such poison is behind the times, but to do so in this case is beyond excusing, at a time when he is only supposed to invite brothers to the funeral.  Putting more nails in the coffin is such poor manners.
As a proud member of the club. we keep the fire burning, and all our business is within the club. However, we stand guard.
I just wanted to say something to somebody; this is a big slap to all my brothers that are in mourning. 
As I try to remain calm, cool & collective, I am glad I have older brothers that I can pass my concerns on to. I am really pissed about this.  
We have survived worse, one bad cashew nut, is all we need with the reunion coming up, we don't need these negative vibes. 
I am sorry, this club will always be invisible to him. Long live the Mount.
Yours faithfully,
glen mckoy.   
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Rudi Singh
Feb 4
My dear brother, Glen,
I feel for you and I understand your obvious disgust by those who to this day carry 'baggage' for one reason or another about their experiences on the Mount as a student.
As you know I am not one to readily comment of issues about the alumni but this one lit a fire!
While at the Abbey as a student we used to clout ‘chupidees' for babyish behaviour ........... I urge you to send a virtual clout to this chupidee and leave it there.
As men who overcame many issues in life which have moulded us to become the people we are today - some of us did exceedingly well - it is somewhat laughable to read this crap and know that some of dem fellas didn't get clout hard enough!
I want to thank you for selecting me as one of the persons you would share this email with.
Be comforted in the thought that while this person still carries a chip, Fr. Odo would not have given a damn.  There were other issues more important in life for him to deal with.
Cheers my brother and I look forward to sharing a bottle of Johnny with you when you visit us next,
Rudi
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GEORGE
Feb 4
Glen.....
We are all human. 
I also had a negative reaction to the note. 
I prayed on it and remembered that each one of us has a past that sometimes “explodes” at the wrong time and place;
I am personally guilty of doing that many times in my life. 
Suggest that we forgive our brother Joseph and remember the good things that he has done for our group...
God bless,
George.
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glen evelyn
Feb 4
Glen,
Let it ride.
Do not add coal to the fire. 
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From: mckoy43glen@hotmail.com
Date: Tue, 4 Feb 2014 12:18:48 +0000
My Dear Brother, Joe,  
Thank you for your email on the funeral arrangements.
Joe, I am really sorry to read about your personal dealings with Fr.Odo.  I am shocked to read same.  I was a distraction in all classes, and would be in trouble at all times,  ha! ha!  But I could never say I felt what you experienced. I remember Fr. Odo always in a good mood.  
I can still remember his smile.  
The part about being white or not, is a little over the top. 
My dear friend, Joe, I respect you.  We went to the Mount at the same time.  
I am not white, but Fr. Odo was always nice to me.  
So your statement is a personal one, and I don't think this is the general consensus.  
Now I hope that you have found some peace, in expressing your feelings,
However, if you want to talk about these things at another time, I would be glad to lend you my ears.   
Please give Fr. Cuthbert & Fr. Augustine, our best regards and love, from the boys who live too far away, and will not be there to part take in this ceremony. 
May God Bless Us All, Amen.
Yours Faithfully
Glen McKoy.
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Subject: Funeral of Fr. Odo van der Heijdt
From: bermentmcdowald@yahoo.com
Date: Mon, 3 Feb 2014 21:58:43 +0000
My Dear Brothers,
It is with regret that I have the duty to inform you of Fr. Odo's passing.
His funeral will be at 10:00 am on Thursday at the Abbey Church.
Fr. Odo was a frequent reproach to me, in all my failings.
The harsh scrutiny of his inspection (I would feel his eyes all over me) and his short dismissive manner never failed to make me feel inadequate and less than, like a Kaffa
He seemed to be a hard judgemental type and to have had a superior ethnocentric air, especially directed to those who he felt were unworthy.
I found it strange that he and "Khaki" became close.
That only made it worse for me because I could never escape doubts about my goodness or sincerity under his harsh acerbic, unspoken, contemptuous evaluation.
Colm Imbert and Winston Ramsahai were two boys that Fr. Odo had a soft spot for.
The fact that he liked them told me something about myself that it would take me too long to relate - - "not today, another day."
Unapproachable, unwelcoming and unforgiving:  he rebuffed some of us in our efforts to draw closer to the monks, actually slamming the door in some of our faces a few years ago. 
I gave up trying to prove anything to Odo, possibly 10 years ago and frequently imagined that his unjust, open loathing would have been an inconvenience that I would have had to bear for much longer.
I remember trying to exchange pleasantries with him about a year ago and being cut short by being told not to "waste my time pretending."
He was a divisive figure in the monastic community and had very difficult relationships with many of the local (especially non-White) monks in their youth.  I believe that many a promising vocation was lost because of him.
If any evidence of Fr. Cuthbert's saintliness is needed is that he was at least the one true friend that Fr. Odo had.  Incredible that "Cutty" could be friends with so many very different kinds of people, without offending any.
Amazing that a man who could be so critical of the faults in others would have been so addicted to tobacco, that it lead him to his death.
For me, I am not sure how to feel.
Do I blame or condemn him?  No!
I think that the journey that he is on will make all things clear. 
I am sorry that I joined with others in our youth to heckle, harangue and harass him: rather than turn the other cheek,
I let him know in no uncertain terms that the contempt was mutual.
I know that that is what he never forgave me for.  I realise that I could have been a better person today if I had the demeanour of a student rather than an equal:  there was much that I could have learnt from him, but I was afraid, and as Fr. Benedict told me in his death bed, "impulsive and strong-willed".
We are all proud and arrogant in some ways, genuinely believing ourselves superior and in the right, and I suspect that we are always wrong. 
I hope that my moment of clarity may be longer in coming and that (before then) I will become better at becoming a solace to the hearts of all;  a balm to the downtrodden, destitute, and those otherwise in need.
Sincerely,
Joe
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09HH0001HHO, Howard Ho
14UN0002EUOLGY, Fr. Odo
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53HH0001HHE, Hans Hermans